Proverbs 21:10–13 – Lessons from observing life

A good way we can learn from life is through a keen observation. By observing how people respond or react to different situations in life we can learn much about what to do and what not to do. People who are discerning, evaluate everything they see. They avoid mistakes that others had made and emulate models provided by insightful and wise people. And we ought to be such people. We learn to ask probing questions and test every result. The truth is this: right answers in life are often attained by asking the right questions. In these four verses, Solomon had observed life and made some wise conclusions that we would do well to take note.  

Firstly, in Proverbs 21:10, he tells us that a person overtaken by covetousness is usually ruthless, merciless and cruel. Such a person will never stop planning evil. In fact, he takes no respite when it comes to scheming for evil. Without pity, he will sacrifice his friends or foes, so long as he gains. His is a win-lose mentality. Everybody must lose so that he could win. With him no one else has any opportunity to win. Totally self-centred, he has absolutely no compassion, not even to his neighbours and friends.  

Secondly, in Proverbs 21:11, he tells us that a person who is simple and lacking sense will always have to learn the hard way. He learns only when he sees a scoffer being punished. Simple instruction cannot work with such a person. What is said will just fly over his head. Only when discipline administered to the wayward, clearly observable to him, will make a lesson stick with him. On the other hand, a simple word of instruction is enough for the wise and perceptive. He can grasp a lesson and its implication without much elaboration.

Thirdly, in Proverbs 21:12, he tells us that people who want to live righteously consider and take note of the end result of the wicked. They can see how drastically and tragically the wicked will end. They know that every life is ever under the watchful eye of the LORD and everyone will have to give a final account of how he or she has conducted their life. Knowing the wicked will be brought to ruin, the righteous shun the path the wicked had adopted so that they will not end up like them.

Fourthly, in Proverbs 21:13, we are told that a person with a hardened heart has no room within him for sympathy. This is a warning not to be merciless. Such a person has to be careful because he himself has no immunity from life’s troubles. He may face a similar situation and because of his heartlessness, his plea for help will also go unheeded. His insensitivity and hardheartedness will be remembered against him when he needs help most.

The behaviors we see in others have much to teach us. The astute learn from them. The careless couldn’t be bothered even if they are clearly discernible. They ignore what is good and acceptable and will have to pay dearly. It is so true that a wise person knows that there are lessons we can learn from everyone, if we only remain open and perceptive.  So, look carefully and live perceptively!