Life offers much to us to help us reach our potential
when we live peacefully, unitedly and harmoniously with others within the community
God has placed us. When the leaders and supporters can co-exist with great cohesion,
personal and corporate growth in the community will be buoyant. However, when
we have people and have misplaced roles, there will be disorientation and the peaceful
flow of that community will be disrupted. When this happens, people will be
restless and uncomfortable. What kind of people can unsettle a community? Proverbs 30:21-23 provide us with four types of
characters that can and will cause discord to a community. Identifying such
characters enables us not to put such people in leadership, while reminding us not
to emulate them.
The four types described in verses 21-23 are insufferable
and unbearable. Humorously, the author defines these four kinds of people. When
they are wrongly placed at the helm, they bring disrepute to the people living under
their regime. Firstly, a servant who is not competent, being promoted to
leadership. When such a person, lacking character, skills or the training, takes
the lead in the community, the community suffers. They will be incompetent and
disruptive. The second category of the unbearable are undeserving and
undiscerning fools who are placed in leadership roles. Such type of people will
eat their fill, then wouldn’t care about the needs of others under them. Their main
concern is their personal needs. They will self-aggrandize without so much as
thinking about the needs of others. Thirdly, verse 23 refers to a woman starved
of love. Not accustomed to being loved, she will become difficult to live with.
Her needless crave for attention can drive the man to insanity. She can become
overly possessive and controlling. When a person who is like that, not accustomed
to leadership, is placed in that role, he can become over controlling and his
heavy-handedness can be intolerable and unsettling. Fourthly, a maid who usurps
the place of her mistress and steals the affection of her mistress’ husband, will
become conceited and odious. She is hard to get along and people associated with
her will suffer under the weight of her tyranny. Let’s be aware that there are
such types of people in our community. So, do not promote them to any leadership
role.
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