Friday, 4 December 2015

Matthew 19:1-9 – Marriage and divorce


Jesus left Galilee and was now in the region of Judea beyond the Jordan and large crowds still followed Him and receiving their healing. This in fact is saying that the popularity of Jesus was growing wherever he went. As usual some Pharisees came to Jesus with some tricky questions. This time around, they were hoping to trap Him on the subject of divorce and remarriage. Bear in mind that the Word of God is like the manufacturer’s handbook for Christians. Pertaining life, relationship with God, with others, in the family at home, at work or in church, it tells us how we can function effectively. It certainly will tell us how to take care of ourselves so that we will perform as God has purposed. Like most manufacturers’ handbooks, the Bible contains instructions on how to correct ourselves when we falter. Who would go to the handbook to find fault with the instructions? The Pharisees in Jesus’ day did exactly that. They came to Jesus to ask Him on the issue of divorce, seeking to snare and discredit Him.

The Pharisees concluded that Moses was consenting to divorce, just because he spoke about it in his law. They assumed that it must be alright to divorce one’s spouse because Moses allowed for laws that regulate it. So the Lord pointed them to God’s original intention. It was never God’s intention for divorce. Quoting from Genesis, the Lord affirms God’s intention for a couple to stick to each other permanently. He further emphasized that no one, not even the spouse himself or herself, should tear it apart. Here comes the tricky question. If what Jesus said is true and it is God’s intention for marriage to be permanent, than why did Moses allow divorce? Jesus’ answer is pure and simple – the hardness of man’s heart. In essence what Jesus is saying is this: the root problem of the human race is the hardness and wickedness of the heart of man. However, Jesus is at work to deal with it. If anyone cares to follow Him and allow His transforming work to take effect in one’s life, He will remodel us to fulfil God’s desired purpose in life and marriage.  

As always, God has made us thinking people and not robots even in the area of marriage and divorce. He want us to make wise and thoughtful decision. The intention of the law Moses gave was to provide time for us to ponder and consider, especially in such a weighty matter like annulling a marriage. It was given to prevent anyone from walking out of a marriage at will. Verse 9 suggests that thoughts of divorce should never be entertained except on the ground of sexual immorality and marital unfaithfulness. Any other reason for divorce would made remarrying an adultery. While divorce is an option, a person can still choose to be magnanimous and forgiving. Whatever the case may be, as believers we should make it our aim to practice chastity before marriage, fidelity in marriage, and a lifelong commitment to our married partner. Let’s not entertain any thought of divorce.

Whether we detect it or not Jesus has come to move us, His followers, forward and closer to God’s intended purpose. He has come to take the people one level up and the Law of Moses is not the only avenue that would guide the people. Jesus is in the process of changing and transforming us and made us new from the inside out. Let us work with Him to have a transformed life!

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