1 Kings 5:1-6 – Good friends are assets in life.

In 1 Kings 4, we learned that many of the surrounding nations had a cordial relationship with Israel. David had subdued them during his reign. Part of Solomon’s wealth came from the tributes paid by those nations. In 1 Kings 5:1-12, Hiram the ruling king of Tyre, the capital of Phoenicia, was highlighted. Second Samuel 5:11 tells us that he once sent messengers with cedar trees, carpenters, and stonemasons to build a house for David. In other words, he had a friendship with Israel since the days of David. Now when he learned that Solomon had succeeded his father on the throne,  he formally sent representatives to congratulate him. This was most likely done to maintain the mutually beneficial relationship they had with Israel.

Seizing the opportunity, Solomon then solicited Hiram’s help. He wrote a letter acknowledging that the latter had once helped his father to build his house. Now he asked him to  accord the same assistance to build a temple for God.  Notice that in his request, Solomon made known that David was unable to build the temple because of the war he had to fight. He also made it unmistakably clear that it was God who had enabled him to bring about the rest that Israel now enjoyed. Since they were enjoying peace all around, he wanted to fulfill the desire of David by building the temple. This desire was not something new. For God had made it known to his father that it would be him, Solomon, who would be used to build it. So he made the request to Hiram asking that he provide cedar from Lebanon, helpers, and expertise to assist him and his servants in this project. Solomon promised to pay for the services of the personnel that Hiram would send to help in the project.  

Some lessons to take away from these verses. Firstly, we learn about gratitude. Solomon was grateful for the blessings that he and Israel enjoyed. And in response to the blessings God had shown, he would like to build a temple in His name. Are we grateful for all the blessings we have received from God? If we are, we must nurture a God-honoring life to testify of His goodness. Secondly, just like the friendship Hiram had with David, we too need friends in life. Good friends can give us help in times of need. A friend in need is a friend indeed. Jesus calls us His friends. Thirdly, in Solomon’s willingness to pay Hiram for the services that would be rendered, we learn not to take friendship for granted. We must not take advantage of a friend’s kindness. Remember to reciprocate kindness. The best way to have friends is to be one.