Wednesday, 15 July 2020

2 Samuel 17:21-23 – Overcoming life’s disappointment

When Absalom’s men who were pursuing Ahimaaz and Jonathan could not find them, they departed for Jerusalem. Emerging from the well, the pair of messengers then came to King David. They must have told the king everything Hushai had conveyed to them through the maidservant. The most important part of the message was “Arise and cross over the water quickly for thus Ahithophel has counseled against you.” Digesting everything quickly, David then ordered everyone to arise and cross the river to the other side. So they all arose and crossed the Jordan river overnight. And by dawn, every one of his men including himself was on the other side of Jordan.

In verse 23, we are told of how Ahithophel’s life ended. He went home and hanged himself and died. It dawned on him that wise as his counsel might have seemed to himself, Absalom did not take it. So saddling his donkey he went to his home, set everything in order then he committed suicide. The last part of verse 23 tells us that he was buried with his father.  

Why did Ahithophel kill himself? The Word of God is silent, but for our own learning let us postulate two. Firstly, Ahithophel took his own life out of disappointment. Realizing that Absalom did not take his counsel was more than what his wounded pride could handle. As a man who was wise unto himself, he did not know that God had other plans. It is true that man may propose, but our all-seeing, all-knowing God in His perspective has the right to dispose. Apparently here God did it for the sake of his servant David. So unable to bear the disappointment, the “wise” counselor hanged himself.

Secondly, Ahithophel could anticipate the outcome of Absalom now that he had not taken his advice. His imagination probably drew an outcome for himself should David retake the throne. Perhaps, he could imagine dying in the hand of David. Again his pride would have yelled out an endless ‘no’ to that thought. It was unthinkable for him to die in the hand of a king he had come to despise. He would rather die in his own hand, so he committed suicide. Wounded pride has a way of making us hurt more than we can bear. Be careful not to allow pride to dictate and hurt us and determine how we should conduct our lives. No one is exempted from life’s disappointments. It will come at some point in life. How we handle it will determine how we will progress. Trust God and He will direct our path.  

David wrote Psalms 42 and 43 with the backdrop of the circumstances that he was facing now. The gist of the Psalms shows us that though David was in very trying circumstances, yet he placed his hope in God. In so doing, his mood progressed from one of dejection to one of confident trust in God. He ended with a note of triumph because his life and hope rested in God. This should encourage us to lean on God and know that He is our ever trustworthy and reliable help. Herein lies the difference between David and Ahithophel. One put his confidence in God and the other in himself. Like David, we have the choice of putting our hope in God no matter how adverse our situation in life may appear. Do what David did when he was discouraged by his crisis. He would say to his soul, “Why so cast down O my soul, put your hope in God.” We can also do and say the same to our soul when we are overwhelmed.  


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