Monday, 16 March 2020

1 Samuel 23:15-18 – Being a true friend


There was no telling the degree of hatred Saul had for David. His focus, as we have seen so far, was to eliminate him totally. He saw David as a threat to his throne and popularity. He didn’t realize that his time and season were over. God had appointed for Himself another man after His own heart. One of the saddest facts of life is for a person not to be able to appraise himself but remain oblivious of his own status. Saul was such a man. Blinded by his incense for David, he pursued him relentlessly even though he had not been successful. How could he when God was on David’s side? Everyone, except for Saul, could see from what was happening that David was the true leader. The saying is true, there is none so blind as one who would not see. If we are to take hold of life appropriately, we need to honestly appraise ourselves.

Since Michal, his wife sent him off, David had been a fugitive. He had been running with his father-in-law in hot pursuit. Every time Saul got wind of where he was, he would soon be there. With Saul hot on his heel, so determined to exterminate him, David felt the enormous pressure. Not only had he to consider for his own safety, but he also had to consider the safety of those who dared to associate with him. His experience in Nob with both Ahimelech and Doeg told him so. Now at Keilah, he had to evaluate the people he was in contact with and to decide for himself whether he could trust them not to give him away to Saul. He found it difficult to put himself at ease with the people of Keilah whom he had rescued from the hand of the Philistines. But thankfully he had a God whom he could totally trust, and Who had his back covered. Like him, this God, whom we have also come to love, has our back covered, and we can trust Him. Now David was in the wilderness of Ziph at Horesh, located in the southern part of Judah, approximately about twelve miles south of Keilah. He was also fully aware of Saul's evil intention against him, seeking his life.

A simple calculation will tell us that he must be at the lowest point of his life. How wouldn’t he? He was running with his motley bunch of 600 with Saul in hot pursuit. He had been betrayed by Doeg. Then told by God that the people of Keilah would surrender him to Saul. Now he was located in the wilderness. Apart from a faithful God, what hope would he have? Thankfully he had a good friend in Jonathan. A true friend is one who knows your plight, who would turn up in the most critical and depressing moment of your life and speak the truth into your future. While his father was pursuing David’s life, Jonathan came and encouraged him in God. A true friend and a godly one too. The moment between the two must be quite a scene. This was the last time they would meet.     

Jonathan’s words were comforting. Though humanly speaking he was the heir apparent, yet he could see clearly the plan God had for David. He could tell that he was God’s appointed. So he said to David, “Do not be afraid, because of the hand of Saul my father will not find you, and you will be king over Israel and I will be next to you; and Saul my father knows that also. What an encouragement! Jonathan knew David was God’s man and he was not jealous. So that day where they were, the two bosom friends reaffirmed their covenant. Then Jonathan went home. This was their final meeting.

True friends are affirming. They are not threatened by your gifting and calling. They are faithful and would encourage and help you to evaluate yourself more accurately. They speak into your life honestly and truthfully. More importantly, they pray for you. Not only do we need such a godly friend, but we must also seek to be one. A true friend is really rare!



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