Saturday, 15 November 2014

Romans 14:13-23 – Do not stumble others

If the church wants to have unity in the midst of diversity, here are some principles believers must put in place. Genuinely accept one another. No one should look down on another believer because of dissimilar practice. Be aware that two Christians can disagree with one another over customs and social habits and yet both be perfectly right with God. Refuse to judge others while submitting to the Lordship of Christ. Be aware that will all stand before Christ, our judge, to give an account of ourselves to Him.

Here in verses 13-23 Paul outlined four important things believers need to have, in order to achieve unity in the midst of diversity. Firstly, in verses 13-15, he urged believers to make up their mind not to be a stumbling block to others. We should not insist that the practice of other believers must suit our personal preference. We are all free to practice our convictions but we are not free to hinder a fellow believer. Every believer should seek to exercise restraint on his or her personal liberties.

The emphasis here is not on the right or wrong of a practice per se but on the attitude that every believer must adopt in relating to the brethren. It is important for Christians to have a right verdict concerning faith and practice. In verse 15, Paul tells us that the preference of food should not just be about being right or wrong. It ought to be a matter of love. The primary focus of love is edification. It seeks to build the brethren and never tear down or destroy them. Love will not cause the brethren to be stumbled. Therefore, the Christians’ preoccupation should always be love and not merely liberties.

Secondly, in verses 16-18, Paul switched to call believers to live as citizens of God’s kingdom. Living in this kingdom is about living with right priority. Know that the Kingdom of God is not about food and drink only, he said. The Kingdom of God is about righteousness, peace and joy in the Holy Ghost. Therefore, food is secondary and should not become a matter of contention.

Thirdly, in verses 19-20, the apostle encouraged the pursuit of what will be mutually beneficial.  Seek to be a light rather than a judge in our Christian liberty. Put at the forefront of your mind this question: “Do I build up another by the way I behave?” Do things that will edify other believers to build their faith.

Finally in verse 22 and 23, Paul admonished believers to do everything with a clear conscience. He gave an advice, each to the strong as well as the weak. He urged the strong ones to keep neutral things as a personal matter between them and God. One will feel happier and blessed and will not have to berate oneself, when faith is exercised knowing that others are not offended what one does. Then to the weak he said, “But he who doubts is condemned if he eats, because his eating is not from faith; and whatever is not from faith is sin.  What Paul is saying is that a person should not act against his own conscience just to please others. Don’t be pressurized by others into sinning against one’s own conscience. While our conscience may not be an infallible guide, it is nonetheless wrong to go against it. We ought to never sin against our conscience, no matter who pressures us to do so. The right motivation to do anything is when we believe it is the right thing to do. It would be wrong when we do things out of social convention, or because it is popular, or to please men.

Action steps to consider: (1) determine not to stumble others; (2) behave as a citizen of God’s Kingdom; (3) act for mutual benefit; and (4) live with a clear conscience 

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